Listen to many, speak to a few.
It is better to be alone, she figures, than to be with someone who can’t see who you are. It is better to lead than to follow. It is better to speak up than stay silent. It is better to open doors than to shut them on people. She will not be simple and sweet. She will not be what people tell her to be.
E. Lockhart, The Disreputable History of Frankie Landau-Banks